生活方式|不要放弃...我通过了驾驶考试

博主们的花花公子,上个月绝对是史诗般的。在个人和职业生涯中,我一直在从事很多有趣的事情。所以说我一直很忙对我来说并不罕见。我的上帝似乎是我的主题曲。上个月发生在我身上的一件事情是,我通过了驾驶考试。现在,我感到非常高兴,因为这不是我第一次,这是我第四次。信不信由你 took me 5 years, on and off and cost me thousands to learn to drive and get my pink license. You maybe thinking, woah Jess that is a really, really long time! But, if you 读 my last post on about when  我的第三项考试不及格,它将使您深入了解我的 关于失败的想法.


So where do I start with 这个 whole driving thing? So when I was 17, I was never really interested in driving. When everyone was booking their first driving 课s, all I wanted was a camera for my birthday. I had absolutely no desire to drive, it was kinda forced onto us, that it is something I needed to do. Nonetheless, I got my provisional license, as a form of I.D mainly for going out, lol. It wasn't until I was 18 in the summer of 2009, that I finally passed my first 理论测验 with ease. I had the intention of doing 课s, but I still didn't really care to do them. I mean, I lived in London where public transport is easy, all my friends drove, and would take me where I needed to go, so where was the rush?

当我匆忙来临时 realized that I only had 2 years to pass my test due to my 理论测验 running out! So on the 1st of June 2010, at the age of 19, and after finishing my first year of uni, I booked my 课s with an independent 在我的大学做广告的讲师。他是 cheaper than schools, had a good record and was a high level 讲师 so I knew he what he was doing. In a nutshell, I was with him for about a year. I wasn't learning anything really, he wouldn't monitor my driving, even when I asked him to and there was no structure to the 课s. I never did extra learning as in watch videos and books, thinking going driving every week was enough. In general, his way of teaching was pretty shitty and he was a little rude. So eventually, I said bye to my crap,first driving 讲师 and embarked on a new 讲师.

这次,我聘请了一位女教练,因为我的最后一位教练真的很不礼貌,所以我认为与一位女性同伴会不那么令人生畏。现在我和她一起学到了一些东西,但是我没有和她一起点击,她有点自尊。老实说,当我和她在一起时,我讨厌开车。因为我没有通过她的教学风格来获得信任,这打击了我的信心。这时候,我 realized 我的理论考试快要用完了,我不得不再做一次 在2011年。我轻松过关,但对浪费金钱感到沮丧。在和我的姐姐一起上一次练习课之后,我终于离开了这位驾驶教练。我们只说 lesson was awful, my older 姐姐迅速告诉我的驾驶教练要去哪里,而我 instructor 告诉她我学得慢,不认为我在做 进展。生气了 我姐姐离开时,就像她教我的时候,我学得很快,而且我总体上是个快速学习者。这位老师只是在拿我的钱,知道她的教学风格并没有跟着我。由于我讨厌开车,所以我无法像以前那样带自己去做作业 read or watch videos, I just 想克服它并完成它。



By 2012, I took a break and finally decided to go with a school, AA. My new 讲师 was miles better, I was making progress and finally went on a test. I knew I wasn't 读y, but I felt more confident and for the first time ever, I wanted to drive and was making an effort to pass by doing extra work. On my first test I failed, with like 13 minors and 2 serious, for observation. I took another test the same year, and then took a year break to focus on my final year of University. 


现在,2013年7月4日, 我有3名未成年人和2名严重观察者未通过第三次考试。 我永远不会忘记考官对我说的话 “杰西卡,你是一个强大的驱动力,如果你没有犯那些愚蠢的错误,那会过去的。” 带着高昂的情绪,压力和不断减少的银行存款余额,我对自己很着迷。一回到家,我就撕裂了。.我看到红色,把东西扔在家里,尖叫,哭泣,我很生气。我以前从未如此生气过,而且我是一个冷酷的人。现在,在您认为我反应过度之前,我将告诉您为什么我要这样行事。一年的时间专注于我的学位后,我才再次开车,大学后很难找到工作,因为我有很多 经验,我不得不做我的 theory test 再次。 总的来说,我感到压力和挫败, emotionally drained by 一切。这种失败加剧了我的压力,我想爬进一个球。



Nonetheless, the hunger to pass was greater than ever. I took my 理论测验 and passed for the third time. Then took another year break and stated driving again at the end of 2014 with a new 讲师, with LDC. My goodness, my driving had improved with 这个 new 讲师, there was structure and I was making progress. Now my mindset had changed, I was a driver! I 只是 had to show the driving examiners 这个. I started watching videos, and 读ing ever now and again. I would think about driving, breathe driving, and believe I would pass on my fourth time. So I booked my test for the end of 2015年5月.Unfortunately, I had to move 讲师s as my 讲师 was going on a course. Frustrating 那样的话,这给了我时间 推迟我的考试,到六月。即使我有信心,但仍有一些我想努力的领域。因此,我观看了视频,视频和视频,并做了一些私人练习。


My final 讲师 came from BSM and it was my 讲师 Hadley, who pushed me hard. He was a perfectionist yes, but the standard of driving he taught was great! I booked my test on  6月15日以最贴切的方式过去。 正如我在2014年反思文章中所说的 我相信自己,我对道路更加了解。经过近5年的学习驾驶经验,现在是时候获得我的驾照了。我不会听到“对不起,您失败了”这句话。这次不存在失败。没错,我第四次与9名未成年人通过考试。这是一个很好的动力,我以为我在某一节中失败了,但总的来说,我感到平静。一些有关 this 时间不一样,我看不到自己失败了。我可以高兴地说我有我的执照 and everything 只是 clicks :)

The reason I wrote 这个 post, was because I wanted to be a source of inspiration for people  谁在开车苦苦挣扎。驾驶不仅与您学习新技能的能力有关,还与您的心态有关。如果您想开车,如果您相信自己可以做到,那么您会的。我的心态很明确,直到我会通过。我相信我是一名车手,我专心,很积极,我做到了,你也可以做到。

这里有一些资源对我有帮助:


测试的心理方法 



左转/转弯


圆桌会议


祝好运 :)


  1. WOOO做好了我的爱!它'通过的时候感觉真好:)

    苏菲x

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  2. 祝贺爱!

    I only passed my test 4 weeks ago as well and I totally get it, 只是 like you I never really had an interest in driving ( I love a good old relaxing walk) My 讲师 was a nag but in hindsight her perfectionism made me pass with 5 minors ( I was so obsessed with my mirrors lol)

    您完美地总结了这一点,一旦看到自己成功,就可以'看不到自己失败!它's so so true!

    安妮x

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  3. Thank you for 这个 post Jess. Congratulations on passing!
    I failed my first test 这个 time last month and it really deflated my confidence as I'我推迟了这么多年的开车(我没有'也不想在17岁时学习),并最终促使我自己去做。我没有't鼓起勇气再次参加考试,但我现在真的想通过x

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  4. 恭喜杰西!一世'm in a similar situation as you. Never felt the need to drive until 这个 year. All of a sudden I'我拼命学习!一世'm 75% of the way through my 课s and I'我已经预定了我的考试大声笑。
    I never thought to check out driving videos on youtube but will definitely do 这个 to pick up some tips.
    P.S. I had some horrendous 讲师s too and ended up settling on learning with a female 讲师 and a driving school. Really hope I can pass asap!

    这件衣服的女孩

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  5. 嗯,我还没有'甚至还没有报名上课或其他任何事情'不想开车,但同时知道我'我将不得不在某个时候做'支付课程和一切的费用太贵了,但祝贺最终获得了它,我敢打赌,您会感到宽慰

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    1. I'm at http://coral-lawson.blogspot.com.es/ but I think you've already seen my blog before

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  6. Well done one passing Jess! I also passed last December, it was my first test and it took me a little over a year learning with an 讲师 and my mum. This was my second attempt as I did have some 课s with my mum a few years before to learn gears but I was too ill to carry on. I was so so lucky because I had a fantastic 讲师, a family friend who has a pass rate of around 90%. I've seen so many friends in the same kind of situation as you with shitty 讲师s who only want to take your money. - one friend told me that her 讲师 would have personal calls in the 课!
    无论如何,坚持下去做得好!
    艾玛(Emma)Xx
    www.emmaslookingglass.com

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